Well no day is really typical as there is always something to deal with–one sick kid or another, a bike wheel that has a flat (but that could be a post all on its own), an errand to run, etc. But on a typical day we all get up around 6:30, get breakfast on the table, which usually consists of cereal and milk. We try to make oatmeal sometimes, but who has the time really? The kids then get ready–dressed, brush hair, brush teeth, wash face, pack backpack with water and lunch (Abby and Zoë), which Mom or Dad has just finished making. Abby and Zoë can head out on their own around 7:40 since Abby has gotten a key to the gate. There are crossing guards and they can make their own way to school–a huge difference here: many kids, even in grade 1, walk by themselves to school! Miriam and Naomi need escorts. Miriam’s school is about a 15 minute walk and Naomi is about a 10 minute walk (each at the respective speeds of the child).
Once the kids are at school, Trudy heads off to ulpan from 8:15-12:45 and I go to work. Actually, I do some of my best work at the Aroma Cafe. I try to get a swim in during the day and am some times successful.
The kids meanwhile have lots of activities. Abby has school from 8:00-1:30 including Math, Hebrew, Gym, Art, English, and a weekly trip to a local farm on Monday. After school she has a number of different activities: Soccer, Lego, Ceramics, and Painting on Sunday, Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. After that she comes home and works with Yael (a teenager that is helping Abby with her Hebrew and sometimes babysits for us).
Zoë has two after school activities—Soccer and Ceramics. She goes to an afternoon program every day until 5:00 where she has other activities, gets help with her homework and plays lots of games.
Miriam spends the morning at the Gan and then in the afternoon has some other activities in the same building. She really enjoys colouring and seems to be picking up most of the Hebrew she needs to get by.
Naomi goes all day to the maon (pre-school) inside the same compound as our apartments. Her productive Hebrew is probably the best of all the kids. She knows most of her colours, produces simple sentences and loves to say “col-hacavod”, which is an idiom meaning “all the respect” and is commonly used where we might use “great job” or “excellent work”. She is supposed to nap for an hour or so, but she really does not want to…She gets fed several meals a day and seems to be enjoying the experience.
Pickup runs between 4:15 - 5:00 and goes all sorts of ways. Today I took the car and picked up Miriam, then Zoë, and then Miriam and I walked over to get Naomi. Other days, we try to walk, but its about an hour of moving kids from one place to another and we only have one stroller. After pickup we try to get them out to the playground for some fresh air, but they often end up watching 30-45 minutes of TV (at least it is in Hebrew!).
After dinner, we bathe them and get them into bed. On Monday and Wednesday, I don’t get dinner as I have Ulpan from 6:00 - 8:30! By 8:30 they are finally in bed and then Trudy and I do the dishes and get ready to start the entire day all over again tomorrow. Yes, it is as exhausting as it sounds!
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